Eye rolling when you describe your crazy lib friend. That is a pretty far out there viewpoint, so I don't necessarily see much of that from people I know who I would call liberal. (Maybe you just call him your crazy friend and nothing of substance changes, right?)auroraave wrote: ↑Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:38 pmbpj wrote: ↑Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:15 pmCan assure you that wouldn't happen.
I don't consort with lib bitches in a friend capacity because they're not capable of it.
They will stab you in the back as soon as they find out your leanings. You've seen it here personally ten times once they realize you're independent and not a lib bitch like them.
You're just kind enough to move past it.
If you did meet yup, I'd really like to know what the mask situation would be.![]()
In my experience, if you put a lib, a moderate and a conservative in a room, the conservative and moderate will listen to all points of view, they're generally willing to have a discussion - even if they disagree with another's point of view. Liberals will not listen to any POV except their own. That is not 100%, of course, but that is what I have seen to be true - and I live in hard core lib central. There can only be their way, or else you're a racist. That behavior generally stems from their inability to support their own positions with reasonable dialogue and logical points.
I was having a discussion with a crazy lib friend regarding federal covid policy, and I said I leaned into Jeffersonian ideology - you know - putting the emphasis on states taking control of their own destiny. He literally told me that I was a racist - because Jefferson owned slaves and that made him a racist. I pointed out that it was perfectly legal to have slaves back then, and he got all pissed off. I asked him to explain how it was racist - nothing but rage and nonsense - and he said because they were black. I pointed out that - the slave trade was started in the middle east and fed by black slave traders in Africa, and that all races have endured slavery - all of them. It had nothing to do with being black. I asked why he was singling out blacks when whites, asians, everyone has been enslaved. The usual rage and fury - but no answers.
Again, what would the mask situation be?![]()
As to listening to others' viewpoints: I worked on a project a while back with someone who was promoting a concept he called "listen louder". (I just googled it and didn't find his version, so obviously it didn't catch on.) What he meant by "listen louder" is applied to an issue two people disagree with, let's say masks, or maybe the proposed infrastructure package. Person #1 offers his opinion and reasoning, and Person #2 replies in the form of "what I hear you saying is ___ and ___" etc. If person #2 has listened well, Person #1 will say, "Yes, you have described my feelings, logic, etc."
Obviously not everyone "listens" like this. I hear people of both left and right not listening to what "the other side" is saying, and basically just saying that "the other side" is brainwashed by their presumed choice of media. One person is accused of being a "mask lover" because of listening to nothing CNN, and another a "covid denier" because of listening to nothing but FOX. Not very helpful positions, are they?